Flying girls of Pakistan

It’s been a while since I posted anything to my blog or Substack. Been juggling a lot, plus working on a piece I began writing some days after attending the South Asia Literature and Arts (SALA) festival in the Bay Area a couple of weeks ago. While that percolates, I want to share three related stories — about the ‘let her fly’ concept from a wonderful book, girl gymnasts from an underprivileged area of Karachi, and how a little girl’s question helped change the gender balance in the Pakistan Air Force.

Book cover-Let her fly

The educationist Ziauddin Yousafzai’s book ‘Let her Fly’ about his journey, which includes his famous daughter Malala — is, in my view, a must-read for anyone interested in education, gender rights, and bridge-building. One of the lessons in it is about how persisting with your own vision and holding on to your authentic self without aggression towards those who don’t agree with you or even those who attack you – something we try to embody at Southasia Peace and our syndicated features service Global Southasia.

It’s a book I’ve assigned my journalism students at Emerson, and last semester at IBA Karachi, since I first heard about it in 2018, when I heard Ziauddin Yousafzai speak at a class at Harvard that the professor kindly allowed me to sit in on.

Cambridge MA: My mother Zakia Sarwar with Toorpekai Yousafzai, 6 Dec. 2018, after Malala’s session at the Institute of Politics. Photo by Beena Sarwar.
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A real and dangerous pandemic, and lives well lived

The Covid-19 pandemic is real and dangerous. Yesterday it likely snatched another beloved relative from us. My beautiful, youthful 83-year-old cousin Geti’s husband Ismail Saad, 90, passed away in the early hours of Monday morning. He was frail and not keeping very well, but was mentally all there. Had just finished yet another book – in Urdu. A comparison between educational systems in different countries, it will now be published posthumously.

Ismail Saad and Geti Waheeduddin a week before their wedding, 1967.

He wasn’t tested but the positivity rate in Karachi is currently estimated at 40%. Like others, many of our family members tested positive over the past weeks – most with mild or no symptoms, probably the Omicron variant, including my mother Zakia Sarwar, 82, and many overseas guests visiting for a family wedding. But it’s not mild or asymptomatic for everyone. The day before Ismail Saad’s passing, the virus killed a senior pediatrician at Aga Khan Hospital.

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